Home, Part 1

The parable of the prodigal son is a compelling story of heartbreak and redemption.  In addition to the main story line, we also observe the nuances of the relationships between a father and his two sons.  The climax of the story is when the prodigal returns home and we see the father rejoice over his return and the restoration of that broken relationship.  In the father we see a heart full of grace, compassion, mercy and forgiveness.

Earlier this year I conducted a survey asking people to share the first words that came to mind when I said the word “home.”  I surveyed 25 people, both men and women, ranging from age 10 to 86.  It was interesting to see similarities and patterns begin to form as the answers were tabulated.  I anticipated answers like family, love, and a safe place, but was surprised at the number of people who mentioned candles, candlelight, and a fire in the fireplace.  Other answers included welcoming, peaceful, good food, and “a place where I can be myself.”  My favorite answer was, “a place where it is imperfect but perfectly suited to me and my kids.” 

After compiling and analyzing the answers, seven main categories emerged. It was a challenge to figure out where to put some of the answers because there was overlap with some of the categories.  Listed below are the categories with some examples of the answers in parentheses.

Comfort              (cozy, warm, comfortable)

Family                 (known, familiarity, conversation, relationship, pets)

Love                    (loving, loved and to love)

Safety/Security (my safe place, hide from the world, haven, refuge, sanctuary, protected, escape)

Peace                  (relaxing, rest, contentment)

Light                   (candles, candlelight, fireplace with a blazing fire)

Joy                       (laughter, happy)

In an upcoming blog titled Home – Part 2, I will tie all of this together as I conclude my series on the first beatitude “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.”